I actually went to Easter brunch with my sister, her boyfriend...... and yes.... My mother...
First time i'd seen her in a few years. It didn't go bad... we chatted, ate brunch, and got caught up on some surface things. She didn't pry so it went okay...
I guess I'm no longer avoiding her... but why did i go?????
because cutting her out of my life completely is making me angry and bitter... and I shouldn't flinch and do a double take when my friends call their mom's "mom" and dad's "dad" in conversations... it makes me uncomfortable.
so i'm trying a new approach. She's actually kind of getting her life together... still drinks... but i can't stand being so angry and bitter...
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